LinkedIn Is Even Worse Than Facebook

LinkedIn, the professional social network, has a wonderful, succinct purpose; to provide a space where working people can showcase themselves in a way where otherwise a resume was not enough. Great, right? A place where you can connect with potential employers so that they can know everything about you before they even meet you (and away from potentially embarrassing posts on your Facebook page). What happens though when the casual, social networking norms of Facebook begin to bleed into the professional world? Then you’ve got a problem.

After being introduced to LinkedIn a couple years ago by a friend who probably says the word “networking” about 20 times in a conversation, I was instantly turned off. Not because of the site itself but because of how people were using LinkedIn. There were so many instances of connections for the sake of connecting that the whole premise started to lose value. It was like experiencing Facebook back in high school when classmates”friended” anyone they ever met so that they could hold up their profile of 1000+ friends like some kind of creepy social achievement.

As strange as this thought process is to me, what’s even worse is when the unfiltered connecting of your personal life into your professional life means that old men are “networking” with young women under false pretenses. An Atlantic article by Sophie Gilbert titled “LinkedIn Is Not a Dating Site” highlights this exact problem.

Proudman tweeted a LinkedIn message sent to her by a much-older partner at a law firm complimenting her on her”stunning picture!!!,” two things became clear. The first is that senior partners in law firms overuse exclamation points just as much as Millennial women purportedly do. The second is that some men are apparently hoping LinkedIn is the new Ashley Madison.

Proudman’s tweet prompted other women to reveal some of the messages they’d been sent by older men on the site under the guide of “networking.”

This rat-race mentality, collecting as many “connections” as possible while diving headfirst into a pool full of cliches like “goal-oriented” and “global innovator” and regurgitating those into your profile, is both painful and depressing. My hope is that while I create my LinkedIn page I can remember what I wrote down and then furiously highlighted in my notebook,


This will become my mantra whenever I feel the pull to fill in blank space with “synergy” or “team player”. Although, it won’t all be so bad because while my initial reaction to LinkedIn was full of doubts and I still have concerns over the possibility of not creating a profile fit for a hedge-fund wannabe, I’m eager to provide myself with a space to showcase what I have to offer employers. So as much as I prefer the old methods of communication and “networking”, LinkedIn has the potential to offer a unique and valuable medium for presenting myself in a way that a paper resume can’t; provided I don’t forget my most important rule…



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4 thoughts on “LinkedIn Is Even Worse Than Facebook

  1. This is a really great point. I think you perfectly worded my own concerns with LinkedIn. I never considered LinkedIn to be a breeding ground for the the same high school mentality of “collecting” connections. However, I would be remiss in discounting those truly amazing people who do have an outrageous number of real life connections. They probably look ridiculous online, but their connections are perhaps real.


  2. Overall, it was well written, had great thoughts and ideas, and the main idea was very clear. Your use of words and phrase was very well done also.
    You had a point that people misuse networking sites, including LinkedIn. There seem to be people on all networking sites that misuse them, sadly there’s no way around it. Nevertheless, that shouldn’t discourage you or anyone else form using it LinkedIn, because there are positive aspects to using it. There seems that every positive thing has negative happening to it one way or another.


  3. It is interesting to hear this side of the argument. The fact that people are trying to connect for the sake of gaining as many connections as possible really defeats the purpose of having them. These connections are suppose to be beneficial to your professional interest and to see people abusing them really does turn people off about joining the network.


  4. This a strong blog post, filled with fluid transitions that articulate what you know about LinkedIn, your initial reaction, your personal experience, and your goals in very clear and relateable way. Your approach to this topic and use of language in a way that is laid back engages the reader, because phrases such as your mantra of “Don’t be a tool” and your preferences of an older method is honest and bold.


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